You are broken hearted. You are alone now and suffer pains. You feel sorry for yourself about your relationship. And you just want a magic formula to get your ex boyfriend back. Cheer up, it’s possible. Let us now harness it to make your dreams come true.
If you have just broken up with your boyfriend and feel that it was all a big mistake and you want to get back together, now is the time to dry your eyes, gird your loins and clear your head, because there is a lot of work, planning and scheming to be done.
Who said magic was easy?
I know, clearing your head is easier said than done in a confusing and tragic situation such as this, whether you are sixteen or sixty. And girding you loins? I hear you ask. A biblical term, literally: "tuck your skirt up into your knickers" meaning get yourself ready to stride purposefully forward and let nothing stop you from achieving your goal.
Relationships can be very fragile things, and sometimes it takes a lot of time and work for them to form and cement properly, a few ups and downs are always good for strengthening bonds. And if you are strong enough to overcome the lowest of the downs, then it's a good bet that the bond between you will be strengthened to the highest degree.
Now for the magic. Ok, I know that you are not a witch. But you can make magic work for you if you have the right guidance and follow the instructions correctly, make absolutely sure that you do not follow the "Sorcerer's Apprentice" example. If you've seen this Disney cartoon you will know what I mean.
To start with This is your first mission:
FIND A GIRL.
Yes, you read that right, you must now find the girl you once were, the girl he met and fell in love with. Look deep down inside, she's still there. that beautiful self possessed girl with all the allure, the mystery, and all the other qualities that your ex-boyfriend fell for. Find her and rescue her, bring her back to this world as only you know how.
Just stop and think carefully, If he were to see you at this moment, as you are now, probably he will only see a very confused, hurt, frantic, emotional creature wildly seeking... What? Emotional blackmail, revenge possibly, a return to the bad old days that drove him away in the first place. You will only succeed in making him feel threatened and on the defensive.